How to Create through Toxic Behaviours

Enjoy my newest blog on how to heal when around toxic behaviours and create through them with strength, confidence and to live your divine destiny with more purpose on our path. The Divine Feminine is our hearts way through any challenge, bringing love, abundance and empowerment when we create like the light we are. May this bring more peace to you.
Enjoy Creative Soul 🌀❤️🌹

Artist Mr_Owlman


Let’s describe toxic behaviours from others, as well as within ourselves. I find this leads to compassion from the heart, from our own relationships with others, to finding purpose and growth from within our hearts, from being and acknowledging our own toxic behaviours that can be healed and created through without judgement.

In fact, let it be inspiring for the soul, let it be liberating, let it be the soul’s purpose. It is our destiny to feel anger, or toxic behaviours in order to allow the light to enter into our hearts, which is where you may find love instead of hate, grace instead of force, and creativity in whatever form you choose to create from, can be our salvation and creates greatness and fulfilling life purpose.

When I am going through a hard time, I find a liberating creative flow, as I love to move and heal it, which may be the sacred rebel within me, as I don’t want that in my life. So I create, I always say…How can I grow through this, which then gets me super excited to see the shift within.

Sometimes we may need to feel that divine support, especially in times of need when we are searching for joy, love, creating strength, confidence, etc. One thing I learnt within my own heart is that sometimes nonsense appears in my life, and somehow I then feel depressed or confused or not even worthy on my life path. I question this so much, as how can destroying thoughts really take over our life path? I feel there has always been a way, and to say “how come this feels like destroying my soul instead of capturing the beautiful essence of light that is in my heart”.

This is something I find very rare to discover, and where I find my joy isn’t from other people’s words, perceptions, beliefs or even their voice, or their truth. Sometimes I find it when my heart feels loved and appreciated by others, or not even that completely, but by leaning and letting go and allowing YIN, a form of the Divine Feminine, to help me, which means letting go and not allowing anything that may destroy my happiness to enter my life. I find that leads to compassion in the heart and helps all of humanity, just by being so.

I was recently flipped upside down just for a moment that took me by surprise to find out what is essential as part of my own healing growth, what makes my heart filled with joy, and without nonsense from the words of others. Although there is no shame in these words or perceptions that continue to rely on their own truths, my heart deeply moves with our earth, to find creatively through the strength I need sometimes. It is my own heart that loves to appreciate all that is, to heal and learn to love on this earth, but also to remain true to myself, and I acknowledge you for the strength and compassion you are as well.

That in itself is how I find writing, creating or even dancing in a space that brings light to my heart. My own confusion isn’t what is meant to stay in my life. My own confusion is a deepening in the heart, to capture the light inside of it. Freedom knows no limits, and to be quirky in a way that feels successful to me isn’t always appreciated by others, but it is who I am.

So to find strength, confidence, and to create life purpose, one needs to not be in denial of their own truth. One must work deeper on themselves, finding creativity through finding their own joy. What it is not is letting others in regarding temptation and being led by another who seems to quit your creative outlet.

We can unconditionally love them, by learning their purpose isn’t your creativity, but what it is is your creative healing process to find that those we do love need to find their own path. That is the strength we need to let go of how healing takes place, without assuming we know the answers to another path. We don’t know, but we can know how the universe provides, leads us in our hearts, takes action for us, helps us in times of need, and to find creativity through your heart. It is there, it is purpose, it is unconditional love for all sentient beings.

Strength is detachment of other’s actions and words, it is loving ourselves, it is learning to love unconditionally, and the confidence is acknowledging that without this struggle, how could we ask for more joy, creativity or even a stronger purpose. It is our Karma playing out to heal and bring healing relief to so many lifetimes of struggle, or whatever that may be for each individual.

When times of need, I too need to end suffering in my life. Sometimes it’s not even mine. Sometimes I can acknowledge that my work on myself, is the strength acquired to laugh more often, to enjoy all the beauty in my life. There isn’t room for pain in my life, as I deeply have been requesting help and surrendering without even knowing how things unfold for me. That makes me creative with a stronger purpose, so much joy and love, and to be able to love humanity even more, to become even more conscious of our hearts and how they grow together. It is a space of gratitude that I feel, even in times when I am suffering.

Compassion is another great leader in our hearts, working on realms of existence to help suffering, pain, sorrow or even deep sadness. All of this, is creative growth when we can see that our hearts are the light, that we know that something like deep sadness isn’t accessible when we reach out for the light and draw that into our lives.

What creative process works best for each soul, is knowing when it’s time and appropriate to ask the divine for what you need, to reach out to others if needed, to work on your heart and believe me, it isn’t an easy task, nor perhaps many take in this lifetime. But the strength within is knowing that each step we take is momentous, so fulfilling, it creates the space to welcome so much of what you are intending for your life. It is quite a thrilling ride of self discovery. It is also reclaiming your power in your heart and making toxic behaviours of others or within yourself work in favour for our world, by loving your own heart, creating what it is you intend, and to be the light switch for others, including your own heart when necessary.

When in times of need, invoking Blue Tara, one of the many forms of Tara, our Star Mother, our divine mother, and working with Blue Tara, helps transmute anger and bring forth freedom within your life.

This is something I love to share from the Kuan Yin Transmission book, written by Alana Fairchild. Within her book, she writes about the many forms of our divine mother and how they can work in your hearts to serve and to be free from suffering.

Liberation is perhaps enjoying life more often, loving with freedom to walk beside another and not needing to heal them, to allowing space for what you are manifesting and wanting to bring forth are some examples of freedom. Letting go is another form of liberation. Surrendering is purpose in the heart, to which allows freedom to appear in your heart.



Here is Blue Tara’s Mantra, which you can sing or chant throughout the day, or whenever you feel guided. She is a strong and fierce form of the divine mother, in ways that can access a way through any obstacle and create through grace. She loves to work with healers, may it be so.

Om Bhim Tare Vhrim Saha
(OHM BEAM TAR-RAY VRHEEM SWA-HAH)

This mantra can be said 8 times, or even just 3 times, knowing that this mantra acts upon your heart, allowing space to heal from within, and to move unnecessary anger in your life. How anger responds to Blue Tara is through unconditional love and works in all hearts of humanity when you request her help.


Dear Tara, please liberate me and show me the way to a creative path filled with joy, love, happiness, health, mercy and grace, and may my creative offerings inspire and be uplifted from within and out in the world, so that all beings may feel their hearts beating with a rhythm of liberation for the soul. Om Tare.

Namaste

Published by Karen Neuls

Welcome Beloved. My name is Karen Neuls, I am a Reiki Master/Karuna Reiki Master, Certified Akashic Records Practitioner, as well as a Practitioner of Saraswati Healing and The Kuan Yin Transmission. My biggest passion is learning and leaning more into the light, healing myself from within and creating through with joy, compassion, fulfillment, prosperity and love. I love to intend to keep awareness on myself to keep walking a divine destiny that is rare, organic and feels pure in my heart. I adore being a spiritual teacher, it always felt very organic for me, even though I was so shy when I was a young girl, but somehow my heart was directed always through intervention and it just grew within me. Alongside that, I deeply love connecting to the universe to create courses, classes and workshops that fill and inspire my heart and that serves for the highest good. It fills me with joy knowing how deeply moved and loved we all are on this earth. Surrendering and letting go of old ways of thinking, beliefs, even how things should be or expected, flowing to awakening the heart to the divine feminine, embracing no force, limits or conditioning is how I love to move on this earth. It’s not an easy task, my goodness, I continually am learning how deep we are loving the fact life is so supported from the universe, and to be in the heart is where I love to sing with the divine feminine. It is part of what I love to teach and bring forth to our world, to receive more harmony, peace and liberation. I welcome you, if your heart feels guided. 🌹 Namaste, Karen Neuls

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